When your boss is a douche, and it’s just who they are.
That’s a problem that exists, that you cannot change.
No matter what you do, it’s never going to be any different.
You can work your arse off, do your best, seek approval and recognition.
That’s never going to come.
When your boss is a douche, you have three choices.
Accept it, do the best you can, and let it impact you. That sucks.
Accept it and let it go, for as long as you’re getting something out of it. That sucks less.
Or get the hell out of there, and go work with people you like.